Unlike some characters we read about in Scripture, Abraham was a good man. He cared about his nephew. According to the Torah, the future patriarch of the Jews talked with God about His decision to destroy Sodom, pleading with Him to spare the city for the sake of the righteous.
When the sinful men of Sodom made sexual advances toward God's messengers, the two angels struck them with blindness, and told Lot to gather his family and get out of Sodom and don't look back. Judgment was inevitable.
The text says, "The Lord caused sulfur and fire to rain down upon the two wicked cities. He overthrew those cities" (19:24, 25) and their sin.
As the family fled the fiery rainstorm, Lot's wife looked back, and it wasn't some slight, over-the-shoulder glance. But why?
Perhaps she was bemoaning the destruction that befell her city, her friends or the unholy life she might have been living. The text is clear; instead of focusing on the future, one in which God would be central, she longed to go back and it cost her dearly.
The Hebrew translation of the word "look" is naw-baht and it means to "look intently, to regard with pleasure, favor and care."
This theme is seen elsewhere in the Bible. When some of those who had been delivered from Egypt got bored with the manna God had provided for them or lost their vision for the Promised Land the Father had promised them, they accused Moses of leading them into the wilderness to die. They cried to God to be returned to the place of their enslavement. They too were looking back.
When Messiah was gathering His disciples, one man said to Him, "Sir, first let me go and bury my father," to which Yeshua replied, "Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead" (Matthew 8:21-22). He wasn't telling this man to just let his father rot. No, his father was still alive, but was spiritually "dead." Yet, it seems this follower didn't want to drop everything, as did some of the others and follow the Lord. He wanted to go back.
The important lesson is obvious. We're all called to go forward. It's not that looking back isn't instructive or God would not remind Israel from time-to-time of her past sins. Anyone who has been through some sort of psychotherapy knows that to deny events of the past may lead to repeating the same negative behavior in the future.
History helps us chart our direction for the future. Looking back has its place. But getting stuck in the past, does not.
Lot's wife was stuck in the past. Whatever the appeal of Sodom, she wasn't able to trust God or her husband to quickly escape the coming destruction, although she did have a choice.
Those who followed Moses into the wilderness, trusting that he was leading them to a better place, lost patience and started distorting reality, accusing Moses of self-aggrandizement, lording over everyone, and even deliberately causing them pain. Their lack of trust caused them to look back.
We don't know what happened to the disciple who wanted to bury his father, but it seems reasonable to believe that he didn't follow Yeshua. He instead went back home until his father died, which could have been many years. Was he afraid of leaving home? Was he afraid of being unpopular? Was he unwilling to grow spiritually? All these reasons may have motivated this student to drop out of Yeshua's training school.
What about us? Do we encounter times in which we need to make a choice to go forward or "look" back?
When two people decide to marry, they choose to believe in a good future. To look back at past relationships, other than for instruction, could lead to loss. If a new job is presented to us, do we prefer staying within the comfort zone of our present, perhaps not-so-wonderful position, or are we willing to press on and try something new?
A final thought: Compare the way Abram responded when God called him to leave his land (his business, his family, his entire life). He went to a land he knew nothing about.
The writer to the Hebrews says "he was looking forward to the city with permanent foundations, of which the architect and builder is God" (Hebrews 11:10). Lot's wife, by contrast, looked back, unwilling to follow God. The focus of her attention should have been on the future, not the past.
Rabbi Baruch Rubin is president of Messianic Jewish Communications (www.messianicjewish.net) and Rabbi of Emmanuel Messianic Jewish Congregation (www.godwithus.org) both of Clarksville, Maryland.
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